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BECOMING THE IDEAL SPOUSE
The ideal spouse is not found; they are formed.
Marriage thrives when both partners ask not
“What can I get?” but “Who must I become?”
An ideal spouse:
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Is emotionally mature
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Is teachable
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Takes responsibility
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Loves with wisdom, not entitlement
Love does not demand perfection—it requires growth.


Practical Commitment Steps
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Develop self-awareness: Know your strengths, flaws, and triggers.
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Build emotional intelligence: Learn how to listen without defending.
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Practice self-discipline: In words, finances, habits, and time.
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Grow spiritually and mentally: You can’t lead where you haven’t grown.
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Choose service daily: Love thrives when selfishness dies.
Becoming the ideal spouse means you prepare yourself to be trusted, not just loved.
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